Tis the Season for Lent

Lent 2018

I am at a loss of what to write about at the beginning of this Lenten Season. What do I really want to give up for forty days? A big part of me think…I have given up some many things involuntarily that the thought of doing this on purpose seems a bit depressing. Comfort zone much Lissy?

I have noticed a recurring theme lately in all areas of my life. You gotta do the work. The other day I was thinking about the history of film and technology. In 1902 Georges Méliès wrote, filmed and produced Le Voyage Dans le Lune (A Trip to the Moon). When you watch it, your CGI brain looks at it with a bit of sarcastic nod of “Oh how basic is that? You call that special effects?”. Well yes, film had to start somewhere and it started with Georges.

This is my voyage to the moon. I have to do the work. I will not get my coveted Oscar winning performance if I don’t get through all stages of effort. I remember reading recently that work is tough, scary, uncomfortable and rewarding. I can’t continue to bail once that tough things come around.

So what doe this have to do with Lent? Lent is a time for self-discipline, reverence and prayer.  How is this about “doing the work”? On top of daily reading and prayers (see Lenten Calendar for reference) I will be adding in some work. I define work as follows; anything that helps me develop additional streams of income above my 9-to-5 life.

I think I have mentioned before that with my illness, I had a concern on how I was going to support myself financially should I come to a point where my body just wouldn’t support going to a 9-to-5 every day.  With a Warren Buffet school of thought, I have worked on what I call my seven streams. The streams encompass this blog, branching out to YouTube, investing and creating a passive income source.

Here’s my plan, I am implementing forty individual tasks to work on each day of lent.  Whether it is reading, taking a course, setting up a writing schedule or getting out of the house…I have forty days to work on it.  How intense is that?  Here is what I have started with thus far.

  • Read Vlog Like a Boss – this contains twelve chapters of which I have read three. Thus I will give myself nine days to read nine chapters.
  • Pre-write all of March blog posts – there’s four days.
  • Register my online business with my state – boom! Fourteen days of work – right there
  • Attend XOSarah Masterclass – another day of work

Does this make sense? I have been putting of some hard stuff lately due to my own crazy discomforts. Which is a sign of growth, learning and success. Most would stop at that point, and I have – many times. I am not going to start with the “this time it will be different” because that is a set-up for failure. This time, I am just not doing the same things that lead to nowhere because that’s just crazy.

What are you doing this Lenten season? Leave a comment below and let me know.

lissy

 

 

 

 

 

Four Tips to Start Fresh, Again

Anyone care for a do-over? I could really use one right now. I had written out this post and when I pulled it up to edit…it was gone. Oy! If I ever wanted to throw a computer through a window, it was today.  It seems I’m not the only one either. I have seen a lot of social media lately with that theme. January was just a trial month apparently.

Consistency seems to be lost on me right now. My one job was to write weekly for this blog. Where I have I been then? On my bed, watching a Netflix binge. This is not how this works! Right? So we first, thank the Lord we have the tenacity to do what it takes to get it done.

Listening has helped tremendously lately. I was introduced to a podcast called The Life Coach School Podcast with Brooke Castillo. I adore her. I am slowing working my way through her two hundred plus podcasts. I shuffled thru her list and picked out thirty shows with topics I wanted to delve into personally. My top picks thus far are #6 Vulnerability vs. Victim Mentality and #15 Other People’s Opinions. In my list are also topics on weight loss and entrepreneurship.

Gratitude Log – do you have one? This is not a new concept. I started mine years ago while reading one of many of the Sarah Ban Breathnach’s books. Which, if my faulty memory serves, is one of the chapters in her first book Simple Abundance. She recommended writing no less that five things you are grateful for each and every day.  If am tired, I will navigate to writing a small sentence for the day.  Even on my worse days, there is always something to be grateful for.

When in doubt, eat a frog. Ok, now don’t take me literally. I am talking about the one task you have been putting off forever. I am here to tell you that there is nothing more invigorating than finishing off that nagging something you don’t want to do. Whether that hateful task is making the bed or doing your taxes. Just do it people!

I truly hope these quick tips help you get started again in February. Comment below on what helps you when you feel like you are due a do-over.

lissy

Four Tips to Starting, Again

19 before 2019

Let me introduce to my wee Irish friend Laura Hutchinson.  Ok, I am not really positive that she is a fae folk but this girl really knows how to get her sh!t together. In fact, she is so good at it she has a blog and YouTube site to prove it.

I am currently a member of Laura’s Facebook Group (The Secret Society of Magical Unicorns) where I got introduced to 18 before 2018. The gist was, find eighteen items or to-do’s that you would want to complete before the new year.

Unlike a resolution or goal, these were the tasks that you have been putting off for far too long. For example, one of the things I wanted to accomplish was meeting up with the BFF. Though we live in the same state and speak to each other every day – we don’t get a lot of face to face time. With this in mind I created the start of the 19 Before 2019 list, which includes a Galentine’s Day for me and the BFF.

Here’s a peek at my list

  • Kon Mari mini purges (more to come on this later)
  • Create and complete six illuminated scrolls
  • Read 12 business related books
  • Complete all twelve months of One Little Word
  • Galentine’s with my mOnkey

So, what are you waiting for? Grab a pen and notebook! What is on your list?

Goal Setting, 19 before 2019

 

Sentimental Feelings

Kon Mari Method - Sentimental

 

Well, I did it. I finished out 2017 with a last dive into the world of KonMari. The last category is that of Sentimental items. The toughest is actually saved for last. It is not only the toughest but I find the most rewarding. By the time you get to this part of the journey, you are ready. To let go of the garage full of antiques from great-grandmother whose Baroque furniture style doesn’t really fit with your post-modern style home. Or the prom dress from thirty plus years ago.  While these items may hold incredible meaning and value to us. They are not in use, hanging out, collecting dust and taking up valuable space.

My father’s watch means so much more to me than the prom dress hanging in my closet that my ass will NEVER fit into again. Your Grandmothers furniture could be use to fund for a trip to the city of her birth – a bit more rewarding than a garage full of furniture. Don’t you think?

I will have to say that delving into this de-cluttering phase was probably to single more rewarding thing I did for myself in 2017.  I really enjoyed this process and what it opened up for me. I love that my items all have a specific home and it takes just minutes to “clean” my bathroom than actually hours. My clothes are kept in check by maintaining a forty-four piece capsule. Books are now less frequently purchase and only if my library doesn’t have the book to lend.

This is not say that the process fixed all my clutter problems. I still have a hard time limiting what I bring into the house. I don’t always ask myself “does it bring me joy?” I whole heartedly admit that another run through of my planner supplies will be happening in the next couple of months. Along with taking care of my balcony patio as I don’t have a garage full of furniture.

It has been quite an eye-opening journey for me.

 

 

One Little Word 2018

In 2006, Allie Edwards started a tradition of picking one word to focus, meditate and reflect on for the year. This tradition has bloomed into One Little Word. It is something I attempted to work on a couple of years back but never saw it to fruition. I have a tendency to run full warp speed into an idea/project/whatever without really sticking to it or have an all out lack of discipline and follow through!

I wanted to focus my creative flow on to a project this year that didn’t involve setting up another planner. I can do that anytime. I thought of a couple of things like hand lettering but kept coming back to #OLW. Allie’s website has a year-long course for #OLW that offers structured online class format as well as a thriving Facebook community. This allows me to work at my own pace but still have people I can interact with.

The website also offers all sorts of products to get your started.  For this year, I opted to get the notebook and the Main Kit. It allows me to have a more journal like experience with my word. The kit includes journal cards, embellishments, stickers and study cards. And all of it comes in a neutral tone which I am totally into right now. This year, if you are so inclined, you can also have your word made into a jewelry piece. How incredibly delightful is that? I would have jumped on this but I’m not a girl who wears gold.

Once you have a word in mind, the course will lead you into cultivating a reason why you chose the word, an invitation to your word and even defining your word.  What did I pick for 2018? Stop.  As in STOP self sabotage, complaining, overspending, overeating, making excuses, and most importantly blaming. I wanted my word to help me progress to my “next level’ in my spiritual, mental and physical well-being. Stop the nasty habits that lead me to self-doubt and build new ones that lead me into self-assurance.

I am really looking forward to what this word has in store for me in 2018. Are you in? Did you pick a word? Let me know in the comments below.

lissy

Allie Edwards One Little Word 2018

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